Your poem really touched me, and I could feel the emotion and love behind every word. Your mother sounds fantastic and imperfect but full of love and laughter. I'm sorry to hear about the struggles and disagreements among siblings regarding her care decisions, and I hope that with time, healing and forgiveness can happen.

Your tribute to your mother reminds us of the complexities and layers of relationships and how even the difficult parts can shape and define us. It's also a reminder to cherish our happy memories and joy with our loved ones.

I hope your writing and sharing this piece on Medium was cathartic and healing for you. Your mother may no longer be physically present, but her spirit and love continue to live on through you and your memories of her.